window.dialogArguments.location.reload()
为什么啊，IE6下没问题
window.showModalDialog(url,window, "dialogHeight....
这样打开的
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采用这个方法
例子
1.htm
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<title> 1 </title>
<input type=button value= "open 2 " onclick= "window.showModalDialog( '2.htm ',window); ">
<script>
alert( "1 ")
</script>
2.htm
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<title> 2 </title>
<frameset cols= "0,* ">
<frame src= " ">
<frame src= "b.htm ">
</frameset>
b.htm
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<input type=button value= "open 3 " onclick= "window.showModalDialog( '3.htm ',window); ">
<script>
alert( "我是2 ")
</script>
3.htm
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<title> 3 </title>
<frameset cols= "0,* ">
<frame src= " ">
<frame src= "c.htm " name= "x ">
</frameset>
c.htm
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<input type= "button " value= "refresh 2 and close me " onclick= "window.dialogArguments.location= '2.htm ';window.parent.close() ">
注意：showModalDialog缓存的厉害，请清空缓存每次测试